Thursday, September 6, 2012

My mother's curse on me

Everyone has heard the joke about a mother cursing her kid with "I hope your kids are just like you so you can see what you put me through." In a way that's not entirely bad, I mean I think I'm smart and (yes I'm biased) I think my son is brilliant. I think the curse part though is he has no fear of anything. I was a very energetic child, always running always moving. I had stitches around 8 times, dislocated my elbow, broke my wrist 3 times (only once in a cast, couldn't miss playing sports), almost knocked my teeth out, so you get the point. Oh and my mom's favorite, I painted myself head to toe green when I was 4. My son is almost 3 and is already trying to out do me. He's already figured out how to jump off the back of the couch, land on the seat, and bounce onto the coffee table. The only reason he doesn't do some things is I see the look in his eye and know what he's about to try, I guess because it's something I would try to do too if I was him. It really does make me wonder if I will be like my parents and being surprised my son makes it to adulthood. Not because something like a car accident or shooting or something but because the thought process of "I wonder if I can jump this?" and without another thought jumping it.

3 comments:

  1. lolz. i was always trying to get my kid to jump off stuff. he's only had bandaged blisters and a couple of weird bug bites in 15 years.

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  2. It really is true that your kids are just like their parents. I make fun of my sister because her 16 year old daughter has the same attitude as she did when she was her age. Yes it is payback for all the stuff she did to our parents as a kid. I think it is funny when she gets mad at her daughter for doing something that she did when she was her age. Even though it is pay back it is also a reward to see how much your kids are like you and if they are a good person then so are you. Kids are reflection of their parents and parents should be proud to have kids just like them.

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  3. if they're not proud of their kids, something's definitely gone wrong. unfortunately, we don't have total control of our children's development....at age 5 they become cogs in society with tons of influences we can't control. Peer influence is possibly stronger even than that of the media. But, as Blink 182 says "If we're f$@k3& up, you're to blame." It's certainly easier to point a finger at the "way I grew up" than to take complete responsibility for "who I am."

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